from my point of view ...

This topic i dedicated for my friend anih. She have raised the question for definition of LOVE, BEST FRIEND, SOULMATES AND AS THE NEXT BEST THINGS. I'll just define it in a simple way..coz i am still in a learning process to know bout all those things.. Experience is the best teacher for us. So everyday is a learning process for me...

Love- undescribe, infinite definition, make us smile, happy, cry and teach us lots of feeling, long lasting even if we have breakup or not in the relationship with her/him anymore coz he/her is one of the best thing ever happen in our life..the memory remains forever.

Bestfriend- sum1 closed to us. Sum1 we can share everything with even the humiliating things happen to us. Sum1 who can makes us feel comfortable in any ways. And most of all, sum1 who keeps holding our hands in any way..

Soul mate- hard to define (even a 15 years married couple can't tell if their husband/wife are their soulmate) but from my opinion, they are so lucky if they found their soulmate.soulmate are sum1 who mix and match with u. Have same thought. Even if u are not sharing any common things but u still feel comfortable and happy with him/her.he/her can accept u for who u are and sum1 who are being sincere in a relationship. respect each other and most of all, soulmates are sum1 who can be sum1 u love, sum1 who can be ur bestfriend, sum1 who always be there for you and u feel complete with him/her beside you.

As the next best things- from my opinion, no body can decide whether he/she can make anyone "as the next best things" but it is not a crime for keep trying to find the best things in our life. As long as it is not hurting anybody's feeling, it would be just fine. Hoping and wishing in a good way is not a crime.